Please accept this weak form of communication and allow me to keep on sleeping with you.”And as long as you let them do it, they will continue to do it.
Because texting is only enabled by the person who writes back to the text. You’re letting him know that it’s a poor way to reach you.
You send a text when you don’t want to talk to someone, but you want to let them know you’re thinking of them.
I simply text back, happy and grateful to be in contact. And if it leads to another date full of witty banter, scintillating conversation, and sexy flirtation – all the better.
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With the exceptions of the initial safety question and in some cases, your age, you never have to share any information you don’t feel comfortable sharing.
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So maybe the next time he texts, let him know that you turn off your cellphone at work, and he can best reach you on your regular phone.
Or maybe you tell him in a flirty way that the way to your heart is through your voice – and that, if he’s lucky, he might be able to catch you on your cell at before you go out tonight.
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How are you supposed to progress the relationship if you never “touch-base” by actually speaking to one another? Or, am I just old fashioned (39) and not used to this new aspect of dating? Telling someone where you’re located in a crowded theater or bar. There’s no context, tone, voice, or facial expressions to modify your message. You’re encouraged to misspell, you’re discouraged from saying anything deep or meaningful.
Writing flirty or dirty notes to be provocative and naughty. The next thing you know, you’re having a vicious argument that could have been easily avoided in person. Essentially, texting is emailing for the lazy, illiterate and mobile.
If five minutes on the phone is too much work for him, it speaks for itself.